“As ever, Sherry…”

There was a mystery in the first batch of letters I received back in November 2013. The first letter on the pile was addressed to Alice Hunter, but it wasn’t from Chuck. It wasn’t from overseas, at all. It was from the University of Texas in Austin. A warm yet brief note to Mrs. Hunter providing her with the name and address of “Elizabeth Ann Sterling.” The letter was dated April 1946.  I put it aside and began reading Chuck’s letters home. I put the odd letter out of my mind for the time being.

Chuck’s mother was clearly his most trusted confidante. He looked for her approval in many areas: college, career, and his love life. And she was not shy about giving her opinion. In late November 1944, Chuck was writing back and forth to his gal whom he presumably met while training at the University of Texas in Austin. In a note to his mom, he asks for her insight:

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Tucked behind this letter was another one on light pink stationary. It was delicate to the touch, as well as transparent. I was careful not to rip it as I unfolded it.

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Her letter was loving with a tinge of lonesomeness. She envied her roommate who received several letters per week from her man overseas. She teased him and suggested she wouldn’t mind hearing from him more often.

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“As ever, Sherry”  Sherry? Who was Sherry? No last name, no return envelope. Just a name, a note and delicious purple penmanship.

Then, I remembered…the letter Alice received in 1946. I quickly pulled it from the stack and it revealed the following:

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Elizabeth Ann Sterling. Elizabeth? But wasn’t her name Sherry?  After finishing the letters and learning of Chuck’s death, it dawned on me that Alice wrote to the University to find Chuck’s gal and tell her the tragic news. Was “Elizabeth” and “Sherry” one in the same? My instinct told me yes, but I needed further proof. It occurred to me that “Sherry” sounded like the endearment term, “Cherie.”  So I followed my gut and googled the phrase, “1940s terms of endearment, Sherry” As I suspected, “Cherie” was among the nicknames for someone’s girlfriend. But no Sherry.

It was over. With no last name, no return address, no proof, I couldn’t tell the story of Alice Hunter’s selfless act of reaching out to a stranger, to share the tragic news of the death of her son.

I needed to let go
of this story and move on.

And then, few weeks ago, the letters from my new friend in Georgia arrived. My co-author Kim and I dove right in, split up the hefty stack, took our separate piles with the promise to read quickly, text any revelations and switch letters as soon as humanely possible.

And there it was. Sitting on the top of my stack. The answer. Waiting for me to see it.

Sherry

June 10, 2014

Dear Chuck,

I was in the dark with no more paths to follow. I was at the end of the road. Finally, all was revealed. Thank you for the much needed enlightenment.

As ever,

Karen

 

 

Finding the letters…

 

 

Ephemera. This is my new favorite word. I would search for it while perusing online auctions, looking for something to touch, to smell, to marvel at. Anything that would allow me to breath in history fully. Ephemera can be discarded tickets from a horse race; newspapers and scrapbooks; autographs from classmates; and handwritten letters. Lots and lots of letters. With strange postage stamps and loopy cursive words. Remember letters? Email and texts have won the war of communication. Letters in envelopes, licked and handstamped, are the underdog. I love the underdog.

Last year, while searching for “ephemera” at www.shopgoodwill.com, I found four lots of letters described as correspondence from WW2 soldier to his parents. I was intrigued and bid on all four lots. Each lot contained approximately 30 letters. From the description, it seemed that they were all from the same family. When the end of the auction loomed near, I noticed I was out of the running for two of the lots. I thought, “That’s okay. As long as I enjoy some of the letters…I don’t need to win all of them.”

The letters arrived on my doorstep in November of last year — November 11. I thought it was fate that they came to me on Veterans Day. The first thing I did was put them in chronological order. Then I began to read. And I couldn’t stop reading. I could not put these letters down.

The letters told the story of 19 year old Charles W. Hunter. “Chuck” to everyone who knew him. He was from Oregon and all he wanted to do was be a pilot. He enlisted in the Army Air Corps in 1942 (there was no separate Air Force back then. He was called to service in April 1943 and began his classification and training process. Even though he was away from home, he shared take on the experience with his parents, starting each and every letter with the salutation, “Dear folks,”

Chuck served in the Pacific. He never made pilot but he became a respected radar/radio operator who joined flight crews which carried supplies to the troops. He talked to his parents about the Pacific Islands he visited several times a week, his bunkmates and their quirks and most significantly, his plans for his life after the war ended. He imagined he might be a salesman, married with kids. Settling down in Oregon for the long haul. Taking hunting trips with his dad. Tending to the cows on the dairy farm with his mom.

But it was not to be. The very last letter I read in my pile was a condolence letter from a friend to Mr. and Mrs. Hunter on the loss of their son. These letters I had poured over for hours came to a very abrupt end and for some reason I was totally shocked. I never considered for a moment that he would die. He was so full of life and joy and spunk in these letters. I felt like grieving. I felt sick to my stomach. I wanted to hug his mother and never let go. Chuck died on September 22, 1945. He survived the war, but died in a plane crash due to nasty weather conditions. His family shared that he died while dropping supplies to POW camps to save his comrades who were suffering behind enemy lines. Chuck’s life ended when his plane crashed into a mountaintop near Atsugi Air Base in Japan. He was 21.

I knew in my heart that I was holding a treasure. I decided to create a makeshift memorial to Chuck. I placed his letters in plastic pockets and displayed them prominently in our living room. Every guest who walked into our house was introduced to Chuck and his story. I wanted Chuck to live on. To be remembered. But something sad occurred. No one else would read the letters. I was the only one who took the time to read them all.

About five months had passed since Veterans Day, when I decided to share the letters with a new friend of mine. Kim and I walked our children to elementary school each day. We got to know each other and I learned she wrote non fiction articles for my favorite childhood magazine, “Highlights.” It occurred to me that Chuck’s story might make an interesting article. So I told her briefly about the letters and she was very intrigued. She took the letters home with her and less than 2 days later, I received a phone call from her. She was in tears. I had told her Chuck had died in the war, but she had gotten to know him and adore him in these letters. And while his death was not a shock to her, her attachment to him was very strong. I was beyond thrilled that she read them all! Finally, I could share this experience with someone! I asked her, “So, do you think this could be an article?” She said, “ No. It’s not an article. It’s a book. I want to write a book with you about Chuck and his family’s experiences.” My heart began to pound hard. It was an incredible moment. This was going to happen.

While we discussed over lunch our plans and ideas for the book’s structure, we started to ponder about all the unanswered questions we both had. There was a significant chunk of letters missing. We barely knew about his training in 1943. Then I remembered….the other two lots of letters that I didn’t win. The answers were out there. Now I just had to find them. Kim and I both agreed the chances were very slim that the Goodwill in Oregon would take the time to track down the other winner, much less contact them for us. But we had nothing to lose, so why not send a letter?

Meanwhile, my journey to learn more about Chuck’s life led me to the Tillamook County Pioneer Museum. While looking for Chuck’s obituary online, I stumbled upon his sister Helen Hunter’s obituary instead. Helen, like her brother, served in the military. She was a nurse and served in three wars. WWII, Korea and Vietnam. She retired a major after twenty years and spent the rest of her life travelling. Never marrying or having children, she died in 2008 at the age of 88. She left in her estate a significant gift to the Pioneer Museum. They were able to add a new roof with the money she left the institution. And in 2011, they had an exhibit about her life.

I made the assumption that the letters I won in the Goodwill auction, must have been donated by the museum. So I called them to learn more. I spoke to Caitlin on the phone and told my story. I could almost hear her jaw drop. She had never seen the letters I received. She told me that the museum was the custodian of over 1200 artifacts from the life of the Hunter family. But there were just a few handwritten letters among them. We were both stunned. Caitlin explained that she was the person who poured over those artifacts for three months. She had come to admire and love this family, as well.   She was thrilled to learn about our idea for a book.

Over the next few weeks, Caitlin and I both scanned and shared our collections pertaining to Chuck’s story online. Finally, I saw a picture of Chuck for the first time.

With Caitlin and the museum supporting our efforts, it seemed an appropriate time to reach out to the Goodwill Industries of the Columbia-Willamette Oregon and ask for their assistance in finding the other lots of letters. I was clear in my request, I didn’t want to bother the other winner. I just wanted to ask them a few questions about the information in the letter.

It took about three weeks and emails back and forth. The chances felt slimmer, the longer I waited. Then out of the blue, I heard from Joshua. Joshua serves as the manager of the Collectibles section of the Oregon Goodwill e-commerce arm. He was the decision maker. He was intrigued by my story and confirmed my intentions with the folks at the Pioneer museum. He just had a few more questions. It turns out, he’s a history buff himself and found himself drawn into Chuck’s story like the rest of us. He told me that he would call the other winner immediately. He said email is not the way. He explained that This had to be a personal request over the phone to truly convey the importance uncovering new facts about Chuck’s life. I couldn’t contain my sheer gratitude for his assistance. But I still had reservations. Would the other winner respond? Would he share his information with us?

A few days passed, and I received an email from Joshua giving me an update. He had left several messages, but decided he needed to call in the evening time. The winner lived on the East Coast, like myself, and if Joshua was going to reach him, he would need to call after his workday ended. I was touched by his persistence. My heart allowed itself to feel some hope.

Meanwhile Kim shared with me a surprising personal connection to Chuck. Her husband Mike’s grandfather was an airplane mechanic in WW2. Both Chuck and Mike’s grandfather were at the same base in Texas at the same time. And Mike’s dad was born on that base. It was highly likely that these two men crossed paths.

Then the call I wasn’t expecting but wished for came. Joshua had been successful. He reached the other winner and she agreed to contact me. For some reason, I was surprised it was a woman. I’ll call her J. from Georgia. Like me, she was fascinated with ephemera. But her passion was for the Victorian age. She had over 6,000 photographs from the late 19th century. She was a junkie like me. We clicked right away over the phone.

Two days later, on my porch, another parcel from Fed-Ex arrived. J did not send me copies. Nor did she scan the letters. She GAVE me all of the original letters. She told me that the world needed to hear Chuck’s story.

I am forever grateful for her kindness, and everyone whom I’ve met along this journey. Strangers helping strangers in order to share the story of remarkably, another stranger. It doesn’t matter that miles and decades separate all of us. We are linked by the desire to be connected to the past. Not just read about it. Or watch a tv documentary. But to breathe it in. To be one with the ephemera.